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How to talk to this cute girl in my college class?

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I hear ya, sometimes i wish i was back in high school. Life is to short, and you guys made some good points. Ill do it on tues and talk to her and ask her, ill let you guys know how it works out. Thanks for the help and advice
 
this is a great morning read.. made me laugh all the way through. Funny how youre asking from a bunch of GP dudes. wheres girls on this forum.. c'mon!
only advice is i'd give is let your balls drop first cause you shuoldn't be getting nervous to talk to girls when you're a damn sophomore in college and just be confident and be the one initiating thing with her. don't be expect a girl to be initiating anything with you at this point. just be yourself and things will flow.
 
you know what i like about high school? i get older and they seem to stay the same age......alright alright(dazed n confused refrence for the idiots)
 


Schmidty said:
this is a great morning read.. made me laugh all the way through. Funny how youre asking from a bunch of GP dudes. wheres girls on this forum.. c'mon!
only advice is i'd give is let your balls drop first cause you shuoldn't be getting nervous to talk to girls when you're a damn sophomore in college and just be confident and be the one initiating thing with her. don't be expect a girl to be initiating anything with you at this point. just be yourself and things will flow.
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Hey, dosent hurt to ask. And i have researched other places too, thought i try asking here and compare and seems to be good info. BTW im still freshman in college. I have not completed a full year of college yet (Second semester)

Also hearing what some of the other guys, like smoke14 and a few other guys, on there advice its true, i just got to be confident and just go for it. Ill take some of there advice and just go for it.
 
the worst thing she says is no and get away. and then you know there is many many many many many more girls. and you are young.
 
It doesn't get any easier as you get older. In fact, it seems to get harder, because women get harder to read.

I am 32 years old and I still have issues approaching women.
 


Schmidty said:
the worst thing she says is no and get away. and then you know there is many many many many many more girls. and you are young.
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Ya, there will be, i just hope to do well and i like being young so i better try before i get older and it does get harder.


stealthee said:
It doesn't get any easier as you get older. In fact, it seems to get harder, because women get harder to read.

I am 32 years old and I still have issues approaching women.
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Im pretty sure it will get harder when getting older, thats why i think i should just go for it and talk to her on Tuesday. Ill do that and ill see what we have to do for the mid term so i know about what and when to ask her if she like to study. thanks guys
 
Biggest thing is confidence. Don't feel/sound awkward or clingy. If she can't or doesn't want to study that day..leave it at that, don't sound like your hurt or anything just be cool and say maybe another time or something and leave it in her court and just continue being friendly to her.
 


Deff wanna see the results. Have confidence, but don't be over confident. All in all, BE YOURSELF. If they can't like or love you for who you are, she's not worth your time. Just saw this saying the other day, IMO it's damn true...... "Be weird. Be random. Be who you are. Because you never know who would love the person you hide"
 
^^^ That is so true, someone is bound to like you for who your are not who your trying to be. I will do what you guys said and just be confident and be my self. The only thing is when i go up to her i know i will get nervous, but i just will go for it. I got nothing to loose i guess, so ill go for it and hope she likes me. Wish me luck, im going for it tomorrow and try to talk to her.

Hey does it matter if she is talking to someone else, could i intervene in the conversation polity?
 
If you're inviting her to study anyway, the more the merrier. Girls like the safety of a group, and you'd be demonstrating, to an extent, that your are gracious and social.
 
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