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How to talk to this cute girl in my college class?

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basically say stuff even if you don't mean it or if you think she is wrong but at the same time don't come off as creepy
 


Drunkie said:
Just sit next to her in class, and if you were suppose to do homework or study or anything like that, just ask a general question about something like you don't understand it; hopefully she will explain it to you and this should be your door to ice break once she gets through it, you could lead to just other general questions like what her name is and what she is studying and what she plans to do with her life. It usually worked for me...one time I had a girl back in my dorm and clothes on the floor before the day was out.
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Leila was so hot, she had this wierd thing with her dad though...he would have her model in thongs and bikini's for him, he was a "photographer" but I never thought he was.
 


Ya that guy is lucky, if i try that and she slaps me its going to be hell for the rest of the semester. I dont know about doing that but taking all of you other guys advice talking to her about the school work and mid term i can agree i can try. Ill talk to her and do what you guys say and after the conversation just ask what her name was and tell her mine if she does not ask for mine. Also about asking her in studying like if i ask her if she wants to study what are the chance she would say no for sure. And what ways when talking could i tell if she might be interested in me?

The only thing that bugs me is actually doing it, ill walk to the class in tues thinking "I can do it, just talk to her, i can do it, i can do it." And then when i get to the class and see her "I can do it, WTF am i thinking i cant do it!" I will try to do it but that thought just creeps right back to me and get so nervous. how the hell is this so hard and i can talk to other girls who i dont really know but are paired up with in class on the group work.
 
I highly doubt that, but reading this thread all over again from the start (Never knew i would get this much advice) i can see some good points and for the weekend im just going to build more and more confidence and when tues comes ill try to talk to her before class, during, or/and after class and just talk in general and see how things go.
 
When I wanna talk to a girl, I just joke around....


Don't make those sexual harassment jokes yet though...You wait for those jokes when you two are alone with eachother and things can get heavy.
 
Same here, i joke around a lot. But lately i noticed my jokes are getting weaker and well i just hope i can make her laugh.

In general what would a girl, like the one i like, would like to hear from a guy? Or like to do for her, make her laugh, be nice to her, help her ETC? Thats what i got so far on what they like.
 


Aske her if she wants to study. If she says yes, which I am gonna bet she will, then ask for her number and text her so she has yours right there.

DO NOT text her right away. Wait overnight and text her the next day.

If she texts you that night, then she is interested in you.
 
So wait, Get her number and text her later so that she has my number? Seems like a tease which is worth the shot, BUT one step at a time i gotta first talk to her. I hate that our class isnt intill Tuesdays but during the wait i got to remember all this advice and use em.

Thanks all you guys for the advice, now i just gotta grow a pair and talk to her.
 
I was saying text her right when she gives you her number...Or you could wait till later that night and say "hey this is (whatever the **** your name is), I never gave you my number earlier :p"

Then wait for her response.
 


Got it, i first just gotta get that far. You pretty sure she would say yes in studying together?
 
I'm sure she will. If she is smiley to you and you can tell that she doesn't communicate too much in class then she is most likely craving attention from someone. You probably made her day talking to her.

When you two are together, just ask her little questions about her:

Do you commute or stay on campus? (If its an actual university)
Do you have a job? If so, where do you work, do you like your job?
What are her goals after college?
etc...

You can also ask her these while texting. When she responds, just ask her how her day went and let it roll.
 
Just hit her up after class and introduce yourself and see if she wants to study together. If she says no then you tried, but I doubt she will say that. When I was in college thats what I would do. Turned into some great friendships (as well as some fun "study times" later on in the semester). Still talk to a few of the girls to this day and its been about 5 years.
 
shotgun a few beers before you talk to her to kill some of your way over nervousness/overthinking problem. Dont think about what shes thinking and if you said the right **** either. Just do.
 
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