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Well this sucks. What would you do?

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DBGP

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Okay im kinda wanting input on this but cant really talk to my friends about it because they get as excited over gossip as you guys would with a 2.8 setup and things will just turn out nasty.

K well i have this friend who has known this girl for a long time and is completely obsessed with her. He thinks he has full rights to her since theyve been friends for years, and he will hate anyone's guts if you go out with her or whatever. Him and i are really good friends, and eventually he introduced her to me and a few of his other friends. We all hang out a few times, then she gets my number and since then we have been texting each other non stop. She is pretty awesome and id totally go for her. But that will mean loosing a close friend. Even if he forgave me for doing this there would still be alot of tension. She has always wanted to go for a ride on a motorbike, so i gave her a ride, went for a nice 2hr drive.

He finds out and now is kinda pissed and tomorrow him and i are hanging out and going to have a "long chat" and he wants to "set down some rules??" yea like shes totally your girlfriend or something dude. And now Halloween is coming up, there's this big event here called fright night, amusement park all decked out for Halloween pretty much. Now she wants to go to that with me. like wtf am i suppost to do. I cant even innocently hang out with her.

The sad part is that yay this is the first legit girl ive come across(haven't dated yet) and this whole thing gets screwed over by my overly obsessive irrational friend. I know the right thing to do is to not go for her, heck i cant even really be friends with her either. But yea this is my "rant" and this whole situation sucks BIG time
 


Have ur "long chat" and YOU tell him what you want to do, don't let him tell you what you can do with a girl he has no right to. Im all about bros b4 hoes. One of you needs to decide who's going to move on to another girl. But..no girl is worth messing up a bro-mance.
 
if he can understand the situation that your going through, then he isn't a very good friend, like above post, you need to tell him whats going and not let him direct your life
 
Definately tell him that she is giving you play and you are sorry if he doesnt like it but she likes you and you like her. If you guys are real friends and hes not a Vag then he should be able to get over it. If he hasnt been getting anywhere then he needs to realize that she will be nothing but friends with him and let her and you be happy. And he need to stop acting like a girl guys dont run on those kind of rules. Its who she comes to is the winner unless they were already in a relationship then its not cool. So go out with her and tell him to man up!
 
do what you feel is right, since hes not dating her then shes free game for you. ive had the same situation i went for the girl, lost the friend but you know what, he came back a couple months later and apoligized for acting like a tool bag.
 


your friend sounds like a total toolbag. im all about bros before ho's too but when it comes down to it...hes not dating her, hes not being a good bro to YOU. in fact he should be happy as heck that such a close friend is into her, rather than a random a**hole.
 
tcman49 said:
alternate plan : go to vegas and hook up with a showgirl :th_wave:
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haha well i am going to Cancun, Mexico in a few weeks so we'll see then.

But yea he has told her many times "ohh i love you lets date blah blah blah" and every time she says no. This is seriously pissing her off too. But yea during the rules laying tonight, im gona have to say something. They had NOTHING going, ever!! and yet he feels that they've been/going out for years.

But he is obsessed, he will NOT change his mind, gona have to take some serious charisma enhancing drugs before this chat lol. And yea i agree too that no girl is worth breaking up a bromance
 


photo of said girl

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She is very pretty. Your friend needs to get his head out of his rear and realize she doesn't like him and let her go so she can be happy. Then you'll also be happy. Don't let him push you around, you need to lay down the law instead of him. If he doesn't like it, oh well. I had that happen between my boyfriend and one of his friends, he eventually came back around and got over it.
 
matt5112 said:
If he hasn't dated her or isn't related to her, he has no basis for such claims.
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No to both of those! but he thinks hes got HUGE claims. You guys dont even have an idea on how insane he is about this lol.

I should settle things the old fashioned way. A duel. My gp or z28 vs his 01 1.8 n/a auto golf. If he wins he gets her, if i win i get her :D
 


Poke him in the eyes, kick him In the balls and go get your girl. Leave him to lick his wounds. Only the strong survive! Lol
 
Have a broversation with him, that will either lead to a brodown, or the continuation of said bromance.


Once that's out of the way, go for teh girl.
 
I got an idea! Tell him, "Your right, her bj's were pretty bad..." Then find someone even hotter!

Seriously though, have a broversation and things will work out one way or the other. :th_winking:
 
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