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So a friend tries to hook me up....



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Can ya see why I was trying so hard?

Not gonna leave this up long....she may have been dragging me around in the mud but I gotta respect her.
 
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You're going to regret the weight loss when you become of age and start power drinking, which apparently is a hobby of your 12 year old girlfriend. lol
 
So she got grounded for coming home "Drunk", ya that sounds like a girl to totally AVOID. Hey i just say f that ***** and just enjoy working out and doing stuff you like to do. When a girl finds her way to you, then you see you have found someone who you may like. Also the only reason i see her chatting to you was cause she does not have anyone else to chat with apparently. Seems like shes just using you to waste her time with or something. Either way just forget her and move on with your life and hey stay healthy.

And you guys are 170, 130 im 220. I do want to loose weight but i dont have the time and money to go to a Gym everyday. But i have started doing push ups, walking for like 15 mins once or twice a day, and soon when it gets warmer ill go swimming and try to loose some.

But hey you want to trim down thats fine but if you doing it cause you think your not getting girls because of that then No. A girl will not judge you for your weight or size and like you for however you are, now if you want to build some muscle go ahead thats what some one else said is a "Bonus" to your self.
 
Women are simple if you follow these basic guidelines:

1. Don't put your entire faith into meeting any one girl. Be open and willing to meet them all, and any. You never know where or when you'll meet the good ones.

2. Treat them all well, and weed out the ones you aren't thinking got the "normal gene". This does include being upfront and honest with them and yourself. Sometimes a guy will lie to himself to get laid. That's fine, it's best if you can upfront tell her that you aren't into her much, but you'd be down for some fun if she is. It's a normal human thing, and heck..many know they don't want to be with the person long term....but would like to have fun.

3. Women outnumber men in the world and country. This gives us the advantage. They think they have it..they don't, there's less of us. Then factor out a few more guys that prefer guys, and the total and complete nerds that don't realize they could have a girl and the pool shrinks a bit more. Eric mentioned it in another post and I'll reiterate.. you don't have to be in great shape etc to find love.
 


you cant come off desperate, you gotta act like you don't really care, girls don't care what you look like, you can be shredded like brad pit in fight club but if your broke without a job her view of you would be a 1 outta 10. I don't know what you do for a living but im guessing your still in school or young if she got grounded. If a girl really wants to meet you, you'll know it. She says she had a bad memory wtf lol

not trying to be a dick or nuthin, don't mean to offend anyone if i did.
 
ctracer said:
#1. why does it matter WHY he goes to the gym? if he wants to go to the gym to look good, then why the eff NOT? thats what i do. you look great, you feel great, when you feel great you have confidence and it just steamrolls into all good things. so honestly, the reason to be going to the gym is pretty irrelevant.
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The reason is quite important. To me, looks being the primary reason a guy goes to the gym is akin to women getting breast implants or plastic surgery to improve their self esteem, and we all know how well THAT goes. Those women have a 3 times higher rate of suicide, as well as death by drugs. This is because to have so desperate a need for others to be attracted to you physically that it causes you to do something that drastic is usually a sign of deeper underlying mental or psychological issues that can't be remedied by merely "improving" your physical appearance. When they don't find the fulfillment they were looking for through that improved physical appearance, it gets pretty ugly (no pun intended) for many of them. I'm not saying the OP has issues of that level, or is suicidal. I'm just saying one should always examine the true reasoning behind why s/he is taking a particular course of action instead of just going through the motions. You might find some interesting answers.


ctracer said:
#2. i dont see anywhere in his first post saying that he was dependant on finding a woman to make him happy.
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Come on, now. Does he really need to spell it out for you? The entire premise of the OP's thread was to rant about how he thought he had a possible g/f lined up, but it fell through before it even started. "I really don't need this kind of crap in my life right now. For the last few months I have been working out and **** to get in shape so that I can get a girlfriend and to also give me something to do to pull me out of my depression. I don't need all this extra empty promises and crap trying to bring me down when I am trying to pick myself up." Sounds like he had his hopes up awful high.




ctracer said:
however, there is only so much happiness you can give to yourself.
now on this point you can call me naive its ok. i think having the attitude that most people arent worth knowing is exactly whats wrong with the world. if people would just take the time to listen to others we would realize that none of us really are that different. we are all striving for the same things. and yet instead of working together we have this pointless hatred and wannabe superiority complex to fellow men, that i think stems from self loathing and hatred.
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I disagree. For starters, I don't think most people have a problem with meeting, getting to know or even getting close to others. I'm in the minority with the "most people aren't worth knowing" philosophy (at least one that actually practices it). That is something I've deduced from life experience, and granted I'm not that old, I'm significantly older than most on here, so I have a bit more to go on. I'm also extremely analytical. I don't just drift through life on autopilot and go through the motions. I take in the moment, and dissect it to learn from it, or better understand what just happened, and/or why. Basically, I've found that Americans toss the term "friends" and "love" around very liberally. Everyone's "a friend of mine". I'm much more selective with who I let get anywhere near me, primarily because I've found most people to be extremely lazy, careless, selfish, oblivious to their own choices and consequences of their actions, ignorant, and completely lacking in morals, standards, honor, pride, ethics and etiquette. That's pretty far from what I strive for. In fact, most of it is the direct opposite. Perhaps my standards are higher because I'm a 1st gen American, so I have a different cultural background as a point of reference to compare to, but this is what I've found through my interactions with people time and time again. This is why I prefer to focus on my own life, and not worry about "someone to make me happy". I could go into a whole other tangent about the validity of monogamous relationships, but I've digressed enough as it is. Point is I don't find goals and ambitions in life to be a distraction from "finding someone to make you happy". I find looking for someone to make you happy is a distraction from life, and figuring yourself out/what you want out of life, etc. At the very least, certainly the OP shouldn't be letting what sounds like your average/typical 2-bit c*nt get to him.



99prixgt said:
She says she had a bad memory wtf lol
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So she's a drunk AND a pothead??



99prixgt said:
not trying to be a dick or nuthin, don't mean to offend anyone if i did.
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That's EXACTLY what a dick would say!



......I KEED, I KEED!
 
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