I definitely second the pan drop, and NO flush. Flushing transmissions hardly ever works out well, it works better for a few weeks/months, then ****s the bed. You can reuse the old pan gasket if it looks fine, and make sure to wipe the magnet in the pan clean. It will be covered in metallic goo, and it's normal. You just dont want to see chunks of metal.
A always recommend a shift kit with these transmissions. Like FordMan said, it will help extend the life of the transmission in general, and I personally love the feel after I put mine in, very quick, firm shifts. It even reduced my temps by a consistent 10-15 degrees depending on driving conditions.
And in my personal opinion (we'll see if anyone disagrees), any brand of Dexron VI fluid will work, as if it meets the Dex VI certification, it's more than good enough already. I honestly used Walmart's Supertech brand Dexron VI since it's so damn cheap, with two closely spaced pan drops and filter changes, and I have had no problems since doing that a year ago. I wouldn't use Supertech motor oil though...