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Rant!!! Grrrr

SlowM90

SlowM90

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So I have no one to really rant to and new you guys are good about giving feedback! So as most of you know my daughter had her surgery Wed. well her dad and I arent together and he lives about 45min away. I went and got him Tuesday and he has been down here since then..well me and her went and stayed with my parents Friday due to the ice/snow "storm" we got. He came down and see her Friday and Saturday. Well he left today and I havent heard from him nor has my parents. I get on facebook and see his status is "Updating on my new driod FTW" and showed it was over a hour ago. Well I check my phone and I have NO missed calls..thinking he would call me and give me his new number. Well I call his best friend and ask him for his number guess what! HIS BEST FRIEND HAS HIS NUMBER! Well I call him he says Hello and I said "Kaylin has been trying to get ahold of you try to cal her" he said "How did you get this number" I hung up on him. I was pissed! For one you had time to call your buddy and give him your number AND update your facebook but not time to call me or my parents! Well he called back and i was like WHAT?! and he told me I needed to calm down and blah blah. Well I posted on MY facebook "Loves ****ty parents! WOOOHOOO!! You get a phone and have time to call your friend and give them your number but not your kid!! Father of the year award right there!" wellllllllllll then his cousin posted "Not tryin to b rude but the right thing to do is talk to craig about it rather than talk badly of him on the internet where his family can see it." and then I of course posted back this "Well I did call him and his first word was "How did you get my number". If you new me then you would know he was the FIRST person I talked to. And I didn't say anything bad about him I stated my opinion. And not sure how your parenting skills are but if my daughter just had surgery I would want the person keeping her to beable to get in contact with me not have to call around to try to find me. But thats just my opinion." I so wanted to post more but I didnt! What makes me even more mad is his family has seen our daughter MAYBE 3 times in her ALMOST 7yrs of life! None ofthem have called or tried to msg me of on facebook to find out how she is! NOT EVEN HIS MOM! She is a damn crackhead! But yet his cousin can post how I dont need to post that!!! Anyways!!! Im pissed soo sorry if none of this makes since! Just needed to rant!
 


Sounds like your ex \ Baby Daddy's a worthless dick! If i ever have kids i'm gonna be there for everything i can.
 
you gotta forget about him, not end of world, find you a better guy. someone that loves you and your daughter. tell him stick his phone # up his """"$%. good luck. of course if your bugging him and trying to get back together then its your fault, who knows, you do. hope everything works out ok for sake of your daughter who is the innocent one caught in middle.
 
Who's to say he didn't get a new number for the droid and kept his old phone with the old number - you didn't say whether you even tried dialing the old number.

Sorry, while the rant for him not contacting to find out how his daughter is a valid one. Have no clue how the realtionship between the two of you is, but if the rest of the rant gives any indication (hangin' up the phone, yada, yada, yada) - no comment.

P.S. - I do hope your daughter is recovering well...
 
BlownBigBlock said:
Who's to say he didn't get a new number for the droid and kept his old phone with the old number - you didn't say whether you even tried dialing the old number.

Sorry, while the rant for him not contacting to find out how his daughter is a valid one. Have no clue how the realtionship between the two of you is, but if the rest of the rant gives any indication (hangin' up the phone, yada, yada, yada) - no comment.

P.S. - I do hope your daughter is recovering well...
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He didnt have another phone. Me and him have a GREAT relationship..its strange..we was together for around 6yrs before i finally had enough of the way he treated me and I left him. He is like a brother to me..I know sounds SO strange but we get along great but apperently im not what he wants in bed......:th_shakinghead1:
 


Facebook,myspace,twitter all the devils tools
I have myspace for my side business thats it

As for your situation kinda sucks a couple years ago I got a call from my ex that my son was in the hospital and had almost died
SHe had been there 2 weeks before she even called the parenting thing gets complicated when dealing with as$holes
Hope your rant let out a little frustration
Hope your lil one is doing well
 
wickedintent79 said:
Facebook,myspace,twitter all the devils tools
I have myspace for my side business thats it

As for your situation kinda sucks a couple years ago I got a call from my ex that my son was in the hospital and had almost died
SHe had been there 2 weeks before she even called the parenting thing gets complicated when dealing with as$holes
Hope your rant let out a little frustration
Hope your lil one is doing well
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O yes! It helped alot! And I ended up saying ALOT more things to his cousin. Called him and read it all back to him and he laughed. Me and him have a ****ed up relationship but we get each other. He is on my facebook and I new he would read it only reason I wrote it! But she had to put in her two cents...and I pretty much told her she islucky she don't live near me! Like I told her..why do you think CRAIG dont even bring Kaylin to see you guys?! It pissed her off..but its all good! I feel much better after ranting! Thanks guy for letting me waste your life :p
 
:th_laugh-lol3:I bailed on going to school today to set up my new setup of tools and stuff for my garage so i have no life:th_laugh-lol3:
 
Well..I broke up with my boyfriend today. I guess I should be gathering his things so they will be ready for him when he gets here. But I wanna be lazy today! lol
 
I thought FaceBook was for farming?:th_winking:

My daughter is 30, and she's put up with her sons father for 7 years now with the same kinda BS.
 


diamondave said:
I thought FaceBook was for farming?:th_winking:

My daughter is 30, and she's put up with her sons father for 7 years now with the same kinda BS.
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Ya me and Craig have a love hate relationship. We are best of friends and can stand each other but put a label on us and we will kill each other! He just really ticked me off the way he said "How did you get my number" and then his cousin running her mouth when she don't even know me or him really!
 
i mairred a great girl almost 16yrs ago. "hailey" is now 17 almost 18, who do u think dad is??ME...her donor lives close but still hasn't called or seen her for Christmas!!!!WTF..thinks he's abig shot but is really a dumb sh!t. its hard raising someone else's kids, but u can do it with enough luv in your heart. i'm so proud to call her mine.tough situation but what u gotta do is watch the situation u bring her into...not trying to get on ur case, just alot of crap i've had to learn. With little girls u get a lot of broken hearts. I know it was meant for me to help raise her and my son with the help of my wife.
 
Ya, its all good! Im rocking the single thing for awhile!! And as for badbrad..I will admit Craig has crappy ways of being a dad but our daughter don't want for anything! But then again that is his crappy way..he believes if he gives her EVERYTHING she ask for he is being a good dad! O well..he is 27 willbe 28 this year maybe he will grow up and put her before his friends. I know he loves her and would die for her but she needs more then money to show that.
 
agreed. u can't "buy" kids off. her donor always thought he could but he since got a divorce and he's a broke b!tch. some folks deserve NO sympathy.
 


badbrad said:
i mairred a great girl almost 16yrs ago. "hailey" is now 17 almost 18, who do u think dad is??ME...her donor lives close but still hasn't called or seen her for Christmas!!!!WTF..thinks he's abig shot but is really a dumb sh!t. its hard raising someone else's kids, but u can do it with enough luv in your heart. i'm so proud to call her mine.tough situation but what u gotta do is watch the situation u bring her into...not trying to get on ur case, just alot of crap i've had to learn. With little girls u get a lot of broken hearts. I know it was meant for me to help raise her and my son with the help of my wife.
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Yea ive been with my wife 5 years and she has a 10 and 8 year old daughters its a struggle theres lots of powerstruggles but I love them as i do my own son
Their donor has been on drugs and hardly ever around for years Truth be told when hes sober he's not a bad guy Wegave him an ultimatum that he had to get clean and stay clean to see the girls and he just got kicked out of rehab last night for drinking And called us to help him... Only ones who get hurt are the girls its kinda sad that he doesnt even understand or really know his daughters
 
you say your daughter dont wont for nothing as her dad gets her anything she wants, sound like your being the b'''' in this problem get over him. get alife and quit blaming the other half. i and others went thru the am s/;;; your doing.
 
gpgo said:
you say your daughter dont wont for nothing as her dad gets her anything she wants, sound like your being the b'''' in this problem get over him. get alife and quit blaming the other half. i and others went thru the am s/;;; your doing.
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LMAO!!!! This made my night! Let me guess since you don't see a problem in him not contacting me and giving me his number after our daughter had surgery you must be a dad who is far behind in child support?! Anyone who has kids should put them first! He never has and apperently going on 7yrs never will! And get over him?! Again im very far over him did you not read ANYTHING that was posted? Im a HUGE ***** prolly the biggest one you will meet. And it pisses me off that my daughter wants to talk to her dad and I have to call 10 different people just to get him! I could care less to talk to him! Me and him get along GREAT! Hell I still take care of his checking accounts and not sure if you know but he is a welder in a union if I wanted to be a HUGE ***** I would stiff him for child support but I don't cause we get along we have our fights and he even said he was sorry for not giving me his number first and it wasent the fact he didn't give it to me right away it was when I called and he said "How did you get my number" I took that as he didn't want me to have it! He said he was sorry and he didn't mean it that way. The big beef I had was with his crack head cousin running her mouth about crap she didn't know! Saying I was slandering his name in front of our kid! I have been divorced from him for going on 4yrs guess what we have lived together almost all 4yrs! He is like my brother..or a roomate I just so happend to have a kid with. Again what you stated was YOUR opinion and this is mine! Not sure how your parenting skills are but I will make DAMN sure anyone who has my child as a number they can reach me! Soooooo callme a ***** or whatever I don't see where I was in the wrong for being pissed off at him.:th_king-normal:
 
regardless if something ever happened between me and my wife, my kids are 1st even her daughter that i raised as mine....when relationships don't work, the kids shouldn't have to wait for you to get urself together especially if the donor is a turd. your love life goes on the back burner. Think of it in the kids eyes, mom and dad not together, mom and dad get new byfriend/girlfriend.. opps we're mad and broke up ...finds new "friend".movin together....kid is f'ed up because parent can't evaluate a relationship for ****!!!Kids lose....parent looks for next "friend" ,,viscious cycle.
 
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