ect sensor resistance is easy, make sure that you have the correct 2 or 3 pin sensor, if your car has the ECT pigtail that the harness side is plugged in is the same, the pigtail will have 2 or 3 wires. seen plenty of problems with motor swaps/etc in that area... but if the sensor side shows fine (pcm is see'n 215*+) then it should have no problem grounding the relays. now onto the control circuit testing.
go to the junkyard and grab a spare pair of fan relays (if yer a ham fisted bungler), remove the covers, verify secondary circuit activation manually (squeeze relay closed)
if both function, probe primary side s of relays for +12v KOEO. the pcm grounds the relay primary circuits to turn on the fans. if secondary side is fine and primary side has power, then you need to check continuity to the pcm.
id bet the harness rubbed through somewhere, ive seen it 4 times so far