Lulz so mother-in-law responded to my text before my mom or dad... actually they didn't lol but here's how the convo went down (she has a habit of not letting her daughters grow up into adults. We don't pay for our phones, her dad pays for both daughters' insurance, she sends us gas money or has dad put money onto our acct for gas or whatever, she sends us a $100 grocery card every two weeks to get us extra groceries etc etc. Then holds a good chunk of it over our heads if she doesn't get her way)
Me: So I just inquired on a job opportunity in ohio. Was hesitant on it but decided the good out weighed the bad. $25-30/hr doing industrial painting. Painting cranes and bridges and such. Plus they'll pay for all moving expenses. They're looking to hire two painters and I know most of my classmates wanna stay close to home so I manned up and contacted him. Hoping for a call back but at the same time dreading it.
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Peg:

so far away would miss my kids can you check on the area cost of living versus here etc plus court would have to find a job its alot to process isnt it. . we wouldnt be close to help with vehicles etc
Peggy
Me: Yup but we'd be able to come back three months out of the year. Plus even with the three months off a year its still roughly 75000 a year
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Off during winter months so probably dec.-feb.
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Peg: Best do some investigating and where would you stay for 3 months out of the year esp he court had a job and couldnt leave for 3 months every year
Peggy
Me: I'm still thinking about that.
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Peg: What about your internship here know cars are your first love do you know if you have internship for car job here
Peggy
Me: Yes but I can't let an opportunity like this slip through my fingers especially one that can get us on our feet and start preparing to have a family. I figure I had to at least try. If I don't get it due to one of my classmates responding then ill try for one of the two in tea that are hiring or one up by renner that's hiring. But those will probably be $9-12/hr which would still be better than what I'm doing now but would still struggle to pay bills
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Peg: Are you working right now or off tonight
Peggy
Me: Working
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Peg: K know you have struggled alot this year with full time school and work and that you were late at times do you think that will have an impact on your chances at Tea wish i could have made it possible for you to just concentrate on school
Peggy
Me: I've been working 35+ hrs a week since I was 15 I would lose my mind if I didn't work lol
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(slightly exaggerated... actually about 32+ couldn't work more than that til I turned 16)
She started grasping at straws when I mentioned the fact that I wanted to use it as an opportunity to get us on our feet to begin raising a family... maybe because she wouldnt be able to use anything to stay in control... well and court is her child letting go is the hardest thing a mother can do blah blah blah I'd give her that one if she didn't turn around and threaten to shut off our phones or whatever five minutes later when she doesn't hear what she wants to hear.... anyways thought it was funny that she responded not 5 mins later and my parents didn't because they push for us to be independent.... she wants us to be dependant on them forever.
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