Ahh, okay okay, finally getting some answers here! Now, under further inspection, it seems like the black and yellow wires go to the furthest connection from the relay, and the black wire come out with a ring terminal. Then it looks like their should have been a yellow wire coming out also!? I'm going to take some quick snapshots and post them up. Then we can figure out how to wire this bad boy!
The wires go into the relay, in the order that you see in the pics,
Going clockwise, red (large gauge) top left, pink (small gauge) top right, yellow (large gauge)bottom right, black (small gauge) bottom left
PIN numbers in relay in same order, 30 (top left), 86 (top right), 87 (bottom right), 85 (bottom left)