On a relay... a relay is basically a magnetic switch for higher power items to be controlled by lower power switches etc.
Pin 85 is typically grounded. This is a good place to put a switch. If the wire for the ground that comes through a firewall etc gets rubbed...the worst that happens is the item controlled by the relay is running.
Pin 86 is typically an ignition based power, no need to be a high amp fuse, it's only actuating the relay magnet. When this is an ignition based power, your item will not be able to run w/o the igntion turned to on. When they key is turned to off, the item will automatically turn off.
Pin 30, this should be a fused power sourse for operating your IC pump etc.
Pin 87 this is the output pin. Therefore when the relay is actuated this is the pin that leads to your IC pump etc that needs power.