that's a 30 minute drive for you, early? lol
for the car wash, you could meet by my house here, i got a car wash next door, and i got 3 dollar off coupons so its 5 bucks, or up by the bridge, there is a hand car wash, im sure they charge 15 bucks or so tho, your call.
im sure you will be coming down rt 17, and im off 17, the lot the car wash is in is on 17, in the pathmark shopping lot. its right before the exit for rt 80 so it all works out if you want to. ( 80 takes us right to the bridge)