I'm assuming that he was 13 over... Or he would've mentioned getting pulled out of vehicle, OJ Simpson style chase, etc! Lol...
If in NY, 15 mph over the limit is the magic number as far as insurance is concerned. I would imagine that the OP was going faster and the 13 mph is already a break given to him. Age has a lot to do with tickets too... I've been able to bull my way out of tickets going +25 over, it all depends! Radar Detectors help! Knowing the roads you are on help too. People's brake lights seemingly for no reason in front of you help! Etc... But I sat there one time, watching all the cases being handled, what a system! Those who knew LEO's got one type of violation (reduced charge, same $), the lawyers handling clients got another different type (reduced charge, same $)... And those wanting to fight, or offer some explanation thinking it was reasonable and fair, seeking the mercy of the court, all got SCREWED! Lolz...
Don't think you're gonna beat the MAN at his own game!
You gotta PAY if you wanna PLAY, simple rule!!!