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brandonl2000 said:
lmao.

don't listen to the horny bastards. do what danielle, i, and some others have told you. come to the girl with respect and confidence, ask her out. go out have a good time and report back.
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Crap idea. I tried that one for 10 years and never got anywhere with it.

Here are some keywords that these noobs keep saying but really cant explain...

come to the girl with respect and confidence
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I honestly dont think this could be any more vauge... respect what? Her womanhood? her body? her mind? what are we respecting here? How do we know what she wants us to respect?

The word "confidence" gets tossed around all the damn time in these discussions... its a crappy word as it really does nothing to say anything... its about as useful as "be yourself"...

The ONLY thing you have to know about confidence and "be yourself" is the word "congruence" (look it up if you dont know what it means). Congruance of what YOU want is the key to attracting people.. I could go into this for pages and pages on stuff like personal boundary, and the feeling of trust you can instill in anyone (potential mates or just friends). Its a key concept and I can explain it in many different contexts if anyone wants me to.

Treat her nice
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Dont treat her any nicer than you would treat anyone else. People hate it when you do nice things for them expecting something in return... even if you dont they basically assume it (when it comes to guys being nice to girls.. its assumed in every case).

don't act like a total douche
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PLEASE act like a douche! The fact that you can do things she DOESNT like and still handle yourself triggers some ancient genetic code or something... it is one of the best tools a guy has when it comes to seduction.

Roll off your douche move you pulled, turn it into a joke, make her feel weird about it.... anything, it all works great if you are making her feel good in the process.

"Hey ***** we are going to a movie on saturday, and you are gonna suck my big fat weiner! And you are gonna like it!"
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Words are about 10% of any male-female mating type interaction... the rest of the 90% is in the tone/body language/meaning. You can literally say anything you want, but you want the COMMUNICATION to be something similar to that (really you do, but you typically dont suggest sexual things unless you are a pro like myself:) ). If you tried to say anything but that, girls will get very creeped out when you "turn" on them later in the night and try to kiss them, etc.
 


OK so its 4:30 basically, you should be out of school, were 10 pages in, and I haven't read about you doing anything but :th_blahblah:

Its todays teens that are all about texting, sexting, mexting, whatever... HAVE YOU MADE YOUR MOVE????

If the answer is no, do something... and then reply with yes I just ....
 
Maybe he hasn't been in this thread since school got out because he is on a date with her!











LMFAO! Who am I kidding? We all know he hasn't even asked her yet.
 
I read the first line and was like "Ohh, dayum! This guy might be right!" :D


Then I looked down a bit, read, and then felt a wave of truth and disappointment overcome me. :(
 


brandonl2000 said:
$20 bucks says Cole's still single.:D
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treating women like people never works... they don't like to be treated that way I'm not even joking. They may say they want a nice guy but thats a load of **** cause how many hot chicks do you see walking around with a nice guy? and how many do you see with ass holes, gang bangers, and douche bags?
 


Hippo you ask that ***** out yet, since I first posted in this thread I have asked out 4 different girls, 3 are working and one never responds. Man up and ask the girl out before its too late dude.
 
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