That makes sense with the bolts - I had no idea that they made torque to yield bolts, I assume the old man didn't know either.
And it's actually my car and my money, but he is the one with the mechanical know how - and he is very stubborn. Unless you can prove him 100% wrong beyond a shadow of a doubt, he will not change the way he does things. That, along with the fact that I just want the knowledge, is why I have been asking so many questions.
I would attempt the rebuild myself, but I am worried about screwing something up, since this is the first engine I have taken apart (as you guys can probably tell). And I don't want to take it to a shop, because it would cost a few thousand in parts and labor.
I'm almost to the point where I want to buy an old junkyard engine, throw it in the car so it runs... And completely tear the current engine down and rebuild it. Port and polish the heads, more radical cam, oversized forged pistons, the whole kit and kaboodle, so I know that it is all done correctly.