Okay dont take this the wrong way, but you're making this a bit overly complicated. I understand you are wanting to be fully prepared and know what to expect and look for and you are to be commended for that, few people go through that kind of effort, but we need to take care of first things first
There are three bolts that hold the flex plate to the torque converter, but since you are doing just an inspection at this point, I see no reason to take those out as you want to first check for any obvious signs the flex plate is the truly the issue.
Furthermore, the TC to flexplate bolts are torque to yield bolts, once you take them out, you are necessarily supposed to reuse them. Some say you can, others say why risk it.
But lets take this one step at a time, starting with the simpler things and working to the more complex. The siimplest thing to do right now is to just see if there is any visual evidence that the flexplate is the cause.
Again, Im not meaning to be rude or harsh to offend you, but I think for the sake of getting this isolated for you lets take it one step at a time. If indeed you do not see any visual evidence that the flexplate is cracked or broken then we can move to taking out the TC bolts. I personally would not recommend doing that just yet until you/we know more.
Also, I would NEVER EVER EVER EVER EVER recommend you start that motor and try and shove something behind the flexplate while it was spinning. I about fell out of my chair in shock when I saw that.