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All i gotta say is wow

ryangtp89

ryangtp89

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Boy Becomes Father at 13 - "I Thought It Would Be Good to Have a Baby" - ParentDish

This is just crazy. I will take a quote from the story because i dont want any of you to miss it, and too shake your head even more.

When this baby-faced, 4-foot tall boy was asked how he plans to provide for the baby financially, he replied, "What's financially?" Asked what he'll do about money, he says "I don't know," and looks away. Diapers cost "a lot," Alfie thinks, but he's not sure how he's going to pay for them. "I don't really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me £10."
 


Holy Sh*t that's all I have to say to that. At 12 and 13 I wasn't even thinkning about sex at all. I don't get these kids doing stuff like this. It totally blows my mind
 


I am sure he will be takin his toddler to his 21st birthday with him Putz! I am sure his parents are really proud! And here I thought only stupid stuff like that happened in the States ;)
 
Well...I wasent 13..but I was 15 when I had my daughter. Stuff happens! Don't read one story and judge "young parents" im a DAMN good mother always have and always will be!
 
Jess3103 said:
Well...I wasent 13..but I was 15 when I had my daughter. Stuff happens! Don't read one story and judge "young parents" im a DAMN good mother always have and always will be!
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A person who is 13 or 15 is a child. Children do not make good parents, nor should it be accepted that they can be. I'm sure this has happened all through out time and it is just seen more today because its everywhere you look (TV, radio, the net), which now thinking about it, because of how much of this we see from day to day some probably get the idea that it is "ok" or "normal" to be irresponsible. That is what is ment by "Stuff happens" isn't it? Opps, we were irresponsible. I think it's a good judgement of how rediculously ignorant teenagers are when it comes to issues like this. You are right tho, we should not read just one story and judge, but unfortunately the fact is this is common story.

Understand Jess, this is strictly my opinion and is not to be interpreted as any kind of attack on you or anybody else. There is no question that you are a "DAMN" good mother. Infact I have known quite a few girls who have become moms and most of them play the part very well, and ussually do it alone because thier (OMG I love this guy so much, we were ment for eachother and will be together forever and ever) guy skipped out on them inducting themselves in to the worthless deadbeat dad hall of fail. :th_shakinghead1: I'm sure that your plans didn't include becoming a mother at the age of 15 tho, much like this dumb ass 13 yr old who doesn't know what the word "finance" means. With that said I'm sure you have greater expectations for your daughter and will keep her away from idiot 13 yr olds.
 


Blown97 said:
A person who is 13 or 15 is a child. Children do not make good parents, nor should it be accepted that they can be. I'm sure this has happened all through out time and it is just seen more today because its everywhere you look (TV, radio, the net), which now thinking about it, because of how much of this we see from day to day some probably get the idea that it is "ok" or "normal" to be irresponsible. That is what is ment by "Stuff happens" isn't it? Opps, we were irresponsible. I think it's a good judgement of how rediculously ignorant teenagers are when it comes to issues like this. You are right tho, we should not read just one story and judge, but unfortunately the fact is this is common story.

Understand Jess, this is strictly my opinion and is not to be interpreted as any kind of attack on you or anybody else. There is no question that you are a "DAMN" good mother. Infact I have known quite a few girls who have become moms and most of them play the part very well, and ussually do it alone because thier (OMG I love this guy so much, we were ment for eachother and will be together forever and ever) guy skipped out on them inducting themselves in to the worthless deadbeat dad hall of fail. :th_shakinghead1: I'm sure that your plans didn't include becoming a mother at the age of 15 tho, much like this dumb ass 13 yr old who doesn't know what the word "finance" means. With that said I'm sure you have greater expectations for your daughter and will keep her away from idiot 13 yr olds.
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No, I had a 4yrs of college PAID for when I was only in 9th grade. A child was NOT on my list!!! I never did drugs,drank or stay out pass my curfew. But because I got "caught" having sex im stupid? (Not just me but ANY young parent) most everyone I talk to lost there virginity at age 13-16. So are they ignorant too? Or just us people who condom didn't pull threw?! I didnt come from a broke home my parents are still married and VERY happy NEVER seen them fight they both make killer money and Im the only child so NEVER had to want for anything. He was my first and I was his first! We stayed together untill 2006 and split up and now working on things again. I got my GED in May after she was born. Started college in the same year graduated with 2yr degree in Family Law. Then went back for another 2yrs in college. By the age of 19 my gross yearly income was WAY over 90K (and i can show you proof if need be) Her father BRINGS HOME anywhere between 1200-1800 EVERY week. Its called LIFE. **** happens ya I guess If i wasent having sex it wouldnt. And im sorry if I seem so snappy but I just found out about 4 days ago I have cyst on my overies and well pretty much I thank god ever freakin day for giving me her! because now I can NOT have kids! So god has a plan for everone! And THANK YOU LORD FOR GIVING ME A ANGEL!!!!
 
^^^If you make soo much cash why do you have a gp?

I pray that you will still be able to have kids someday, my ex gf's sister just had to go through surgery and it was painful, but they had like two ways of doing it soo they found out they could do it the way that would cut into something and something like that, all i know is that she still has kids soo i hope the same will happen for you!!

Oh btw the youngest mother ever to give birth was 5 years old, no joke. Look it up...
 
LOL hunny. Thats why my 07 is PAID for! lol and No I do not make that anymore! But im VERY blessed to have had made that money and VERY smart as in saving it and investing it. And wtf is wrong with a grandprix?!?! lol I LOVE my grand prix and would not trade it for a BMW or wtf ever. And I doubt I will EVER have kids because the test shows im FULL of the cyst and there is a 87% chance I have cancer. sooo..but all I can do is pray!

EDIT: And when I was makin that I had ALOT of work done to my 05 GTP. Well over 10K. And a house...pool....Cobalt SS, my hubby had a stunt bike (gsxr) and then a everyday gsxr I had a little ninja he was drivin a brand new chevy truck FULLY loaded..even had a sunroof..i think thats crazy but!! money dont matter. I was just sayin cause he said something bout it. Again I was VERY blessed to have a GREAT job.
 


ryangtp89 said:
gp's suck.
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i hope your kidding, cuz for someone who thinks gp's suck you sure do have alot of money tied up in yours it seems.

slowm90, not that i agree with you being a mother at 15 becuase i have a 16 yr old, but im glad your doing as well as you are.
 
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