Premade 555 timer came in from China today. Not bad for a $1.72, if it works. It looks simple enough so if it doesn't work, I can repair it. Pretty small too, it'll fit in the little projector tube I have for the capacitors\relay now. I might even have to find something smaller:
If no one remembers, the point of this thing will be to delay the headlights turning on by up to 10 seconds. That way the engine will be started and the voltages will be "stable" before the HID's turn on. In the stock configuration (with the automatic lights functioning) the headlights turn on in run, off during cranking, then back on while running. This on-off-on is bad for HID bulbs, so avoiding this will help me get better life out of them.