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Man if were you i woulda worked my magic at the dance from the get go. You wait and wait girls dont like that.If you wanted you shoulda been after from the start. but hey it aint too late man.Go spit your game and get some ;)
 


Advice:

Find things she's interested in. Don't talk about yourself unless she asks.

Find out where she likes dining, ask on date to somewhere. Do something fun! Haunted houses are cool this time of year. Get her scared and she'll kling to you.

Dress casual and put some smell good on. Nice Jean's button up shirt or polo. Spike yo hair or whatever ya do.

Movies are cool but don't let you get a chance to chat. I kinda like doing them as a second or third date.

If no haunted house do something like mini golf, fun zone, concert, ect. Somewhere you both can have fun and get to know each other.

You got her to dance with you. She obviously doesn't think your a loser! I know what your going through i was just like you when i was your age. I was one of the select few that married my HS sweetheart from my Senior year.

PS: I got the poon my 8th grade year and didnt' get it again till College. Yes whacking it sucks once you've had the poon!
 
rynoman03 said:
I was one of the select few that married my HS sweetheart from my Senior year.

PS: I got the poon my 8th grade year and didnt' get it again till College. Yes whacking it sucks once you've had the poon!
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These two statements seem to contradict each other. Unless you're just one crazy MOFO
 
LMAO I wish girls were my only worry.
dude, start talkiing about a movie, thens start talking about upcoming movies, she will say which one she want to see THEN BAM you say, "oh really!? well we could go see that movie, invite a friend if you like"(that way it isnt too awkward first date)
when i was in highschool i asked out tons of girls, i only got rejected twice(most girls like to date!) and out of theose 2 rejections i got one of their friends to come ask me out! so the rejection worked out lol.
in the grand scheme of things i Married my highschool g/f, we started dating gr 12...well im 27 years old and married so w/e that = to be lol
 


Be forward! Dont hide anything about what you are thinking and dont think you have to impress her... even more so do not think you have to handle her with kid gloves and be worried about making her mad/not like you... it is the worst thing you could do.

Be EXTREMELY normal like you would be around your parents or something... if she starts to give you S**t tests (asks you dumb questions, suggests that you are something, etc) play games with it, ignore it, or just act crazy over the top cocky about it with a smile on your face. I am 25 and look 16, so when I talk to girls older than me, I get the "you look so young" line alot... I can blow this test out 99/100 times now with lines like "well, I am old enough girl!" or "you are right, I thought you looked younger from over there, now, not so much".

Go over the top to show how much fun you are, and how much fun you have all the time, and she will have basically no choice not to like hanging out with you. DONT take her seriously!

Some other fun tips if you get stuck in conversations that are lame...

Say you are talking about something and she says some sorta suggestive word in a completely boring sentance... make some wild "suggestive" comments on it like "we have only known eachother for a few weeks and you are already thinking about that?", or "what kind of guy do you think I am to be talking like that around me?"

Also, never directly answer a direct question unless the answer is no. respond with another question, or some sly player remarks, or just stare her down followed by a goofy smile.
 
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Ask a friend that goes to your school to help make you to talk to her, and to not let you back out.

A friend to give you a push in the right direction may be useful in this situation. Gotta learn to fly sometime.
 
girls can smell fear a mile away, and they dont like when a guy seems insecure. and always remember that if she isn't into it, then f**k it, there is always another girl
 


all good advice here. but i agree this is a car forum... my suggestion is to scan and if you dont see any KR then pulley down!

thing to know about women is if they like you, they like you. they will be looking for an opportunity to say yes to go out with you. you deff dont want to get stuck in the friend zone and dont want her to just use you for free date's either. Deff pay for the first date. my wife offered to pay half the check on our first date! later she told me that if i would have taken her up on it, that would have been a mistake, but 2nd or third date that is fine.

its great to find someone who is into the same things you are. so if you can get her to wanna go cruising with you in your car and she enjoys it... thats great! my wife loves just cruising and will help or work on her own car too.
 
Become handsome, rich and well educated like me, you will have to knock the girls off your shoulders like you are swatting flies. :D
 
Dude I knew a chick for 3 years in HS and was an epic nice guy to her, well guess what, got the friend zone and she said no when I asked her out. Found out she wanted to hang out with random ass guys once we both got to college (sadly both went to same college...) and kept hanging out with the boyfriend that lied and cheated on her. Learned a valuable lesson there. Girls are ****ing *****es...... They are all borderline mentally retarded and nice guys are always going to be in the dumbass friend zone. :th_angry2:
 


EJOUIE said:
Ask a friend that goes to your school to help make you to talk to her, and to not let you back out.

A friend to give you a push in the right direction may be useful in this situation. Gotta learn to fly sometime.
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As weird as this may sound... possibly one of the best pieces of advice I recieved... every time I go into largely social situations, I make sure ALL my friends know that if they see someone I should talk to, to repeatedly beat my ass until I do. Works WAY better than you would think it would, because in the reality of the world, there is basically no situation where you can not just have a normal conversation with a girl.... if you are in an obviously social situation, you are being weird if you dont.

The "friend zone" is not as scary as one may think if she is a nice girl that you like hanging out with..... Make your intentions with "other" girls known to her and she will be a very powerful networking tool to "kick your ass" and make you talk to other girls. This also could remove friendzone status after awhile if you really screw with her.... I think there are a few dumb chick movies where a "friend zone guy" gets in with the girl after he starts dating that could prove that concept.... You sorta have to know excatly what you are doing if you want it to work well though.
 
Also... another "weird" piece of advice....

Dont "ask" for things as much as suggest that she would be weird if she didnt agree with them.... example:

"I am going to the football game at 7pm, when should I pick you up?"

Its seems like a cocky attitude that may turn girls off... It can, but they are probably weird and annoying to deal with anyway.... 99/100 times it comes off of as a confidant way of inviting someone that is your "friend"... and there is just some weird power in assuming things with girls sometimes... they get this weird idea in their head that things are "fate" at that point.... its tricky mind game stuff, but if you really think about it... you probably would do similar things to your guy buddies and whatnot right? Its all about doing what is normal and whatnot, that is what really counts.
 
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