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Men! WHY?!?!?!

Jess3103 said:
And then when I go out to the bar/clubs I get hit on by older men like older like over 45! LOL Can we not just meet in the middle?! LOLOL
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You must be at the wrong bars then!! lol

Don't let all this get to ya. It sucks but its times like these where you re-evaluate what you want and what you should work at to get that. I was in the same situation before and let it get to my head and ended up being unhappy for a while. When I was unhappy and I think I still am, I came across a few nice girls and I think they saw that. It ruined whatever i had going for me which wasn't much to begin with, lol but I never tried hard enough and I don't blame them for it. Just don't give up or let it get to ya is what I'm trying to say... lol fml
 


FoSHO99 said:
You must be at the wrong bars then!! lol

Don't let all this get to ya. It sucks but its times like these where you re-evaluate what you want and what you should work at to get that. I was in the same situation before and let it get to my head and ended up being unhappy for a while. When I was unhappy and I think I still am, I came across a few nice girls and I think they saw that. It ruined whatever i had going for me which wasn't much to begin with, lol but I never tried hard enough and I don't blame them for it. Just don't give up or let it get to ya is what I'm trying to say... lol fml
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Ya..I know what I want. Its just finding it...and then I don't go out looking cause im worried im going toget hurt..AGAIN! But o welllll!!!!!!!!!! Im just glad I got REAL honest guys on here!! :th_dancingsmilie::th_dancingsmilie:
 
just go out and please urself! fawk anybody else! go out w/ the girls, have some drinks, and just have a good time! just seems like ur not concentrating on yourself right now! i'd do that first. be happy w/ what and where u are in ur life first! everything else should follow after!


most honest thing i could tell u in my life! and if ur happy now! just go out w/ the girls anyway! sounds like u could use it anyway!
 
boosting98 said:
just go out and please urself! fawk anybody else! go out w/ the girls, have some drinks, and just have a good time! just seems like ur not concentrating on yourself right now! i'd do that first. be happy w/ what and where u are in ur life first! everything else should follow after!


most honest thing i could tell u in my life! and if ur happy now! just go out w/ the girls anyway! sounds like u could use it anyway!
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But...I dont have any "girl friends" LOL! So I always go with my closes guy friends. But im not really happy with myself right now...So I know that plays a BIG part!!! But everything will get better!! Just gotta keep my head up:D And im only 22 Iron. Just turned 22 in March.
 




you want a guy that likes your personality, but doesnt care about your body? do you live in a fantasy world? they dont exist. im a sensetive, caring dude when it comes to women, but there is no way in hell i will ever be so unshallow that i wont care about a girls 'goodies' and how she presents herself.

just a heads up.
 
Bio248 said:
you want a guy that likes your personality, but doesnt care about your body? do you live in a fantasy world? they dont exist. im a sensetive, caring dude when it comes to women, but there is no way in hell i will ever be so unshallow that i wont care about a girls 'goodies' and how she presents herself.

just a heads up.
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WTF NO! I divorced my x-hubby cause he wouldnt touch me with a 10ft pole! I dont EVER wanna feel like he made me feel! I want a guy to RESPECT me! Its one thing to like my goodies...its another to ONLY like my goodies! I know im a VERY blessed female..guys are going to notice my boobs! My god! I look down and thats all I see!!! LOL Im just sick of guys ONLY wanting my body...and the ones who seem to want to get to know me better end up turning into jerks! LOL! Thats why I have a wall up!!
 


99prixgt said:
even if the girl is only a 6, it all about how she presents herself.
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Well, I don't dress "slutty". When I go to the bars/clubs I wear jeans and nice shirt. I try not to wear anything TO low cut... Im a jeans and t-shirt kinda gal! LOL. But like everyone says there is ALOT of fishes out there and sometimes you gotta go threw some little ones to catch the big ones!!!! I don't go to the club/bars looking to meet Mr.Right! LOL most those are Mr. Right now! LOL

EDIT: I can get Mr.Right now ANYTIME! I want Mr.Right!
 
Bio248 said:
you want a guy that likes your personality, but doesnt care about your body? do you live in a fantasy world? they dont exist. im a sensetive, caring dude when it comes to women, but there is no way in hell i will ever be so unshallow that i wont care about a girls 'goodies' and how she presents herself.

just a heads up.
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yea, you are right bio
 
Don't mean to offend, 99prixgt, you or anyone else. Just my opinion and what I usually see. But I still think we don't understand women. Never do and nver will. However I think Jess is not like most women in a VERY good way. Wants us to be direct and honest. Jess just hang in there. Mr. Right is out there.... Just be ready and on the lookout.
 
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