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Someone Better?

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iamthedeadman

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Have you ever noticed that when you're single. It seems like you'll never meet the perfect woman, or you'll never find someone better then the person you were with. But when you're with someone. You always run into that perfect woman, or that woman that just seems to be way better then the person you're with.

It's almost as if some women seek out the taken guys, figuring if we're takin then there must be something good about us. And if we're single, we must be sleezebags. Why does everything have to be so @ss-backwards all the time? I mean currently I'm with the women i've been with for 7 years, and have 2 kids with. But it seems like no matter where I go, a lot of women want to get with me, and a lot of them I would loveee to get with.

But I always get this thought in my head, what is the real reason behind it? If I were single, she wouldn't even want me. And I guess that helps me getover the *I want something better* attitude. Oh well, just thought i'd get that off my chest. :p
 


DUDE I always had that problem! In high school I remember This one girl in particular wanted me soo bad and she was steaming hott, a real head turner we sometimes would walk together after class and she would always grab my as* ;). I had a g/f that iv'e been with for 3 years and was completely faithful to her, and I didn't do anything about it. That girl I was dating ended up cheating on me anyways. I am kicking myself in the nuts now for it :th_angry-teeth:
 
WhiteDevil said:
What the shackled one doesnt know, doesnt hurt her. Just make sure the other woman doesnt know your woman.
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rmm...ya....great advise ..:th_tongue2::th_tongue2::th_tongue2:

I have been single since Sept. And me being a female it seems that everytime I talk to a guy he wants to get in my pants. And then when I meet a really good guy I just think he is trying to get in my pants so I push him away! LOL. Most guys who are married with kids a women wants THAT. Maybe not HIM but what he has. I know some guys I have talked to and they seem to like me but the fact I had a kid freaked them out! I try to let any guy im talkin to know she has a dad! Im not looking for her a daddy! But if you TRULY love your wife then just take it as a compliment. I just sum it up....Love is overrated! we will never understand what men/women want..and if you try and try it will get you no where. And always remember all good things come to a end.
 
youre with a girl, and you have kids, your life is over dude. if you do anything bad shes going to turn the kids against you and take half of everything, not to mention your paycheck till those kids turn 18, how does that song go???"if you cant be with the one you love, then love the one youre with"
 
Why does being in a relationship mean someone's life is over with? Why are there so many soured people in this world?


Wait. Maybe its all the people that are selling their bodies out on the internet, or on tv, or the ones walking around sashaying their little asses and trying to pick up on someone thats already taken.

Maybe the taken ones are sour because they are with the wrong person. I don't know. I am VERY happy with the man I'm with, I give him all of the space he wants, but he usually wants to spend time WITH me. I do his laundry, fix his meals. I am supportive of his desires and interests. He is very supportive of me and my children. He has carried the weight of all of us when my job turned out to be shiddy.

Give and take situations are what matters. The respect you have for one another, and treating each other like the other is the most important thing in your life. Nix the games, acknowledge that there is always going to be someone that will catch someones eye, but BE FAITHFUL. Emotionally, and physically.

If you are that dissatisfied, get out of that relationship and be a whole person without someone. That is when you are truly satisfied in any relationship.
 


Ok I know girls that only date/ sleep with guys that are married or are in serious relationships and alot of times they just do it to know they can. That they are awesome enough to get that guy to cheat on someone they love. Thoise girls have no real self esteem and are just looking for a temporary ego boost. do not i repeat DO NOT cheat on the girl you're with that's the dumbest advice I've heard. It doesn't matter who knows who. If you love the person you're with then why would you want to potentially hurt them like that? And if you mess up w the "other" woman then she will find a way to mess w your life, and if she's experienced in this field then she'll go straight to your girl. The girls that hit on you when you're with someone are not worth your time no matter how hot they are. My ex fell for this shi* nand he's getting played hard core. The girl is having him fix her POS vw and telling him she just wants to be friends. So he moved out and left me and our daughter, mind you he still sees her but it'll never be the same and it takes ALL I have in me not to go bash the Fu** outta her car but i know he'd just fix it anyway. ANYWAYS don't cheat on your girl it's not worth the heartache in the end for either of you
 
I've been single for a while now... lol This is great info. though, I think I am going to go out and buy a ring and wear it to the bars. From what your telling me, its bound to get me some broad who is ****ed up in the head!

All bs aside, i usually make friends with girls instead of trying to get in their pants, then months later all i want to do is get in their pants but it never happens because I don't want to risk the friendship. Somethings wrong with me, maybe I just see 10 steps down the road and me spending all my money on them instead of the gtp and I get scared.:o
 
FoSHO99 said:
I've been single for a while now... lol This is great info. though, I think I am going to go out and buy a ring and wear it to the bars. From what your telling me, its bound to get me some broad who is ****ed up in the head!

All bs aside, i usually make friends with girls instead of trying to get in their pants, then months later all i want to do is get in their pants but it never happens because I don't want to risk the friendship. Somethings wrong with me, maybe I just see 10 steps down the road and me spending all my money on them instead of the gtp and I get scared.:o
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LOL, Ya I wish I could meet a guy that would atleast wait maybe the 3rd time we hung out to try! LOL!!!!
 
FoSHO99 said:
I've been single for a while now... lol This is great info. though, I think I am going to go out and buy a ring and wear it to the bars. From what your telling me, its bound to get me some broad who is ****ed up in the head!

All bs aside, i usually make friends with girls instead of trying to get in their pants, then months later all i want to do is get in their pants but it never happens because I don't want to risk the friendship. Somethings wrong with me, maybe I just see 10 steps down the road and me spending all my money on them instead of the gtp and I get scared.:o
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lmfao this is the funniest thing ive red on this forum LMAO:th_biggrin2:
 
the only thing i miss about being single is not having to worry about my girl sayin something every time i buy parts for my car :(
 


I got lucky the girl who wasnt a crazy ***** stayed around and never thought that i was a bad person because i went with my ex and stopped talking to her the thing was that i had no idea i had a chance with that girl but i did and after a rough break up my new gf was there 3 years later so i got whats better havnt seen anything else that i would want plus she likes the gtp so thats a plus ;)
 
blowfishRus6 said:
there is always something tempting to something you cant have....
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Ya, my xhubby told me he didn't want me cause he new he could have me....rmmm......:confused: SOOO When I started talkin and well dating his BEST friend he all of a sudden was madly in love with me again and wanted to change and blah blah bullshi** :th_nanana::th_nanana::th_nanana:
 
Jess3103 said:
Ya, my xhubby told me he didn't want me cause he new he could have me....rmmm......:confused: SOOO When I started talkin and well dating his BEST friend he all of a sudden was madly in love with me again and wanted to change and blah blah bullshi** :th_nanana::th_nanana::th_nanana:
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see some girls are just as bad^^^^^^^^ lol
 


kingd44 said:
see some girls are just as bad^^^^^^^^ lol
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lol, There is ALOT more behind that! lol He would always leave me and when he found out I was somewhat moving on he would come back in my life..and I would let him!!! And umm..he would umm.."give me attention" :th_winking: sooo!!! His best friend was my friend too and we just kinda started talking and then dating! We dated for a little over two years...no he is in WY at Wyotech..I miss him :th_depressed:
 
well in my experiences i will agree it always seems that all girls want u more when u have a gf then when ur single, idk y but i totaly agree with that....and there are alot of girls out there that arent trustworthy so i hate when girls try to say guys are worse.......we might just make it more obvious than girls but its prob even.....
 
minichopper6hp said:
the only thing i miss about being single is not having to worry about my girl sayin something every time i buy parts for my car :(
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I hear this on here all the time, & ppl's girls getting pissed when they race.
Guess I got lucky..my girl loves fast cars & the only time she gets pissed when i race is if I did it without her in the passenger seat ;)
 
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