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My wife is a bad person

If she does anything on purpose, she's in contempt of the standing order in place since filing for divorce. She wouldn't do anything to them anyway, since she's hoping to get them as part of the divorce. Only after she realized she'd lose them would she try, but again, she'd be in contempt of court and thrown into jail. I'm not hurting for money, and I don't NEED the child support I'll get from her. But that's often not the point of child support - it's her children, so she has to pay for them until they are 18, and won't want anything to do with her. I know my older son won't. When my younger son gets older and see's what she did to me and his brother, he may treat her the same way. I won't have to poison them against her - she's done enough on her own.

Got good news earlier today, when DNA test results came back. I am the biological father of both my sons. It wouldn't have changed my feelings towards them, and I would have still fought for them to live with me. But I can't trust anything that my wife says or has ever said now, knowing what she is capable of and has done for 7 years.
 


That really sucks man. I hope you get what you are owed and she suffers because that is a really horrible thing to do to a person and and her own kid too. She's a POS!
 
I feel for my daughter. Well, she's my daughter until the court says otherwise. This past weekend when my younger son, who had been living with my wife, was dropped off, my daughter was crying because she didn't get to stay with me. My wife has been doing this for quite some time, just letting my son stay. My daughter is going to be so F-ed up in the head when she is older, wondering why her dad stopped visiting her. Keeping me from seeing my daughter, my wife knew that my daughter was not biologically mine. The DNA test to show who the father is was dated in July of this year, but my wife has know it's always been a possibility. What gets me is the DNA test was done in July 2014. But she sat on it until I was the one who filed for divorce, and after my wife and I had a long conversation about how things were going. I asked her straight up in August if she wanted to stay married. She demurred, and said that that was a question for me. I suspect that she had a DNA test done a while ago, but either it wasn't legal admissable, or they lost the paperwork. No matter, she's not going to get me to cave on anything. My lawyer WANTS to go to court, because she thinks the judge assigned to us will rule favorably to me. We're going to mediation first. The only "hit" I'm willing to take is I'll not require she pay me for half of our current marital debt. But she has to agree to let me keep the car, motorcycle, most of our marital property, since it's been with me for the past four years, and she gets none of a 401(k) rolled into an IRA. I feel that anything that I bought after the time that it can be proven she cheated, she has no claim on it anymore.
 
. I feel that anything that I bought after the time that it can be proven she cheated, she has no claim on it anymore.[/QUOTE]


i agree
 
Scottydoggs said:
pretty sure you can sue for what ever you've given her in support too.
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Im sure it varies state to state, but thats not how it works here in MI. In MI if you are on the birth certificate you are the one responsible whether or not it is later proved that you are not the biological parent. I had a buddy go through it. Sucks pretty bad. Also in MI it is a LONG HARD fight to get your name off the birth certificate.


Also OP sorry for the situation man. Some people dont seem to care to mess with other peoples lives if they feel like it will benefit them at all.
 
Biological father is going to file for legitimation. I'm not going to fight it. My wife has kept me from seeing my daughter, and my daughter has been with Dickhead Boyfriend/Biological Father longer than than she has been with me. So I haven't developed as strong a relationship with her as my sons. Not only that, but when the relationship between my wife and DBF goes south, I won't be on the hook for future child support.
 


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