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hate being led on

deuce

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There's this girl I like that ive known for about 6montha, and all she's done is lead me on. First she don't wanna take it farther because im with someone, but that didn't last. Then its because she's heart broken. But now she's with this complete douch-bag, and every time her car has a problem she comes runnin to me. I fix it, but don't ever ask for anything other than a thank you. Its very clear she's not happy with him, because she never smiles when she's around him. And she always watches me leave like she don't want me to go, but I have no clue what to think or do. Should I tell her how I feel and prob get shot down again by her, or just let her figure it out. But now she's in this kick where she wont txt me unless it's about her car, unless her boyfriend ain't around. But it pisses me off to where she really needed a ride because her car **** the bed but her boyfriend was with her and I told her to kick rocks.. she needs to figure out what the hell she wants; a guy who don't have anything to give her other than cheating on her, or me a guy who'll give her any and everything.
 


shes using you. stop letting it happen. she knows youre going to give her anything without her having to do anything so shes going to use that.
 
Im figuring she's only using me, and it pisses me off. And it didn't last with the person I was with, when this girl told me that. We broke up like a month later because I was bein cheated on, and I told tiff it wouldn't last between Angela and I.
 
deuce *****es be trippin yo. Tell that girl what is up if she don't want to be with you then **** her. Find someone who doesn't use you, being used sucks trust me I know.
 


Ive been there bro. ive been single for...**** around 2 years? just going from girl to girl. looking to feel something. a couple times i did, got used a lot..blahblahblah, never bothered me cuz i got used to it...ive fallen really hard for 2 different girls before.. but.. none like this girl ive been talking to, who has a bf.. hes known as a player. and she thinks shell end up hurt. Everytime shes around me, she'll cheat on him, and you can tell in her eyes she aint lieing, i know i sound crazy., but i have neverr felt this way for any girl, and i dont see how i could ever be with anyone else... but who knows.. all i know right now is. is what she says when shes with me, which i believe 100%, and her bestfriend also wants me and her to be together. theres a lot more i could say. all i know,everything i do,will all be worth it in the end.

My dads drilled in my head, if you find that girl. that you'd give the world for. someone who makes you feel like no other..(all that blahblahblah.dont feel like saying all of what he said.) dont let her go. itll be worth it in the end., he missed out on his chance. and he regrets it, 2 divorces(losing practically everything), an 4 kids later.

so goodluck to you:D
 
U jus explained wut I was tryin to explain gtpafan, cuz she's so happy round me, but when she's round him she's unhappy I can tell. Like the one day, we were hangin out and she went with me to get a dog, well her boyfriend called and asked for a ride so she asked me if id do it. The way she was acting told me to say no, but I wanted to meet him so I stupidity said yes :/ and when I dropped them off she was smiling till she got out of my car, and her face dropped. And she waited and watched me back out the driveway like "don't leave me" I kinda deserve bein led on because I waited too long to get ahold of her because we got into a fight because u wouldn't leave my girlfriend at the time because I didn't know where it'd go with tiff.
 
yah... she wants to stay in this one while its still good. but it wont be good for long.. i know this guy shes dating. and hes a player he dated my ex bestfriend, so... i just gotta wait. and it'll turn out good... my mom loves her,and said she can move in. and shes all for it in the future. shes a southern bell if you ask me. i dont talk to her as much as i used to. which sucks but it is what it is.

If you think its worth it. go for it. I dont care if other people think im crazy or anything else.Listen to yourself.
 


Yea this is how tiffs boyfriend is, he uses her. They broke up for 4 days, and I didn't know about it which sucks, but she saved $70 in 3 days. When she would've been broke. And she was **** talkin him a little on our way to get my new dog, and she was so happy... till he got in the car. But what do y'all think I should do? Because im at a loss, but I don't wanna be used and on the sideline waitin around on standby for this dick to mess up again.
 


You have no chance
if he didnt have a chance this woudlnt be happening.

Yea this is how tiffs boyfriend is, he uses her. They broke up for 4 days, and I didn't know about it which sucks, but she saved $70 in 3 days. When she would've been broke. And she was **** talkin him a little on our way to get my new dog, and she was so happy... till he got in the car. But what do y'all think I should do? Because im at a loss, but I don't wanna be used and on the sideline waitin around on standby for this dick to mess up again.
He'll **** up again.. no doubt about it.. and from what im hearing, you'll end up with her.. maybe not very soon. but eventually yes.
 
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