Pissed

[french080]

UH. man am i pissed. boy i sure am furious at my ex right now. she thinks she knows whats going on and makes assumptions and it pisses me off. then tries to hold things over my head from the past. when all i want to do is get along for MY DAUGHTER'S sake. just wanted to blow some steam. and if i ever find the guy that carved F*&^ U in my hood and keyed/slashed all tires will be the worst day of his life. well i feel a little better. y do people mess with somebody's ride. that is sooooo weak. man up and come deal with your problems u have with me face to face. dont take it out on my car

[kingd44]

i agree man theres just somethings u dont do especially if u wont man up

[Bogers99GTP]

Some people just dont care man. Just think before you act I got a friends junk ride like this...trust me he deserved it. Waited till a hot summer day when he was gone all day, lay'd bologna on his hood/all over his car. Lets just say when he got all the "meat" off, he had a polka dotted ride.

[TDCRacing]

Shoot I'm not even going to go there with my ex I have a daughter with her also....

[TDCRacing]

Just make the best of it and try not to get mad. Just blow it off...You have to deal with her for the rest of you're life....unfortunatly

[french080]

yea i know, but when she threatens to never let me see my daughter again and that she is taking me to court, and i cant see my daughter until then, its kinda hard not to get mad. im over the whole car incident, it happened awhile ago. just want to get it painted, but have to hold off cuz its needs engine/transmission work before i paint. but if i can find a painter, i can get the paint for cheap or free, any color, kandy, flake, whatever.

[Freebeer187]

Oh man sounds like a big mess of F.

Sorry to hear your car got messed up. Hopefully you can get revenge!!!!

[TDCRacing]

Heh...Me and you got a lot in common. She threatens me like that all the time.


She just sent me this in an email after she came and picked our daughter this morning. She came in and saw that I had a new high chair and I had been oweing her mom like 30 bucks for diapers. I told her I would give it to her this friday.


So she was like how do you have money to buy that and not pay my mom. I said Wendy I did not even buy that. My mom got her that when she came down. And when she was walking out she was like I think it's ****ed up that you don't have money to buy anything for her.I said I do the best I can. She said I guess I won't have to worry about it the febuary huh? (when I start paying child support) Then she walks away.


I open the door back up and say I think it's ****ed up that you have never bought her anything at all.Then close the door.


She has never had a job while our daughter has been alive. She has never bought her anything from her money that she has earned.Only mine and her mom's.

That's ****ed up.


Any way check this out-



SINCE UR BEING A JERK ABOUT EVERTHING, I WILL GET MY MOM TO WATCH DANIKA FOR ME, SINCE U CANT.
HOW DARE U SAY THAT I DONT HAVE A JOB IM A FULL TIME MOM AND A FULL TIME STUDENT. I TAKE CARE OF MY CHILD AND GO TO SCHOOL, ALL U DO IS WORK PART TIME AND REFUSE TO HELP WITH DANIKA, WHEN SHE NEEDS SOME THING I ALWAYS LET U NO, AND U NEVER GET ANYTHING MY MOM HAS TO GET IT.
U DONT HAVE MONEY FOR DIAPERS OR WIPES BUT U GOT MONEY TO BLOW ON STUFF FROM UR CAR AND WHATEVER U WANT????
AND U SAY IM A ****Y MOM, AT LEAST I CARE FOR MY CHILD U DONT!



I'm not sure where she got that I can't watch her. She just always says that.


I knew I had a nasty email or phone call comming....lol

[wicked50]

Just paint your hood flat black for a while till things cool off. Sounds to me she wants a little sausage action.

[SlowM90]

Well being a "single mom" I know it can be hard and we sometimes tend to take it out on the dad! But I will tell you this much if you was married to her you have JUST as much rights over your daughter as she does! In your divorce papers they should have set something up about being able to see your daughter. If they didn't then that means you have EVERY right to see her whenever and for howevr long! If she takes you to court dont get mad in front of the judge. Just play cool and let them know HEY I been tryin to see my kid but she uses her against me! Believe me! Judges will see threw her BS. I HATE HATE HATE when females/males use there child to hurt the other! All they are doing in the long run is hurting the child! I also have some prelaw in family court so if you wanna pm and ask any questions let me know! Stuff like that pisses me off too!!!

[french080]

I do what i can. i see my daughter as much as possible when im not out of town working. i have been paying her since she was born. i pay for clothes and whatever else she might need. i dont ever threatin to take her away. she told me she would never do that. and she does it all the time. i just dont want my daughter caught up in this. she came over the other day to pick her up. and saw my fiance's food scale in the kitchen, cuz we are on diets, got a few extra lbs to shed. and calls me later. asking me what that scale was doing in the kitchen with white reisdue on it. now i know what she is getting at. but stuff like that gets me HOT. that is absolutely ludicrous. she didnt even look at the scale closely. if she did, she wouldve seen weight watchers on it. she insinuates im doing something im not. and makes assumptions and then gets pissy and pulls this ****. well im sick and tired of it. and her husband needs to know when to keep his mouth shut too. cuz i hear him in the background talking some ****. i have always taken care of my daughter. i turn down jobs sometimes when im needed to watch her. i dont use her as leverage to get to her mom. im not like that. but her mom is. and its BS. im no saint. but i try my best to be civil with this woman. all i want to do is see my little sweetheart and spend time with her. i dont need this drama. WHOOO-SA!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOOSFRABA

[evol207girl]

That's horrible!!! My firend's ex does this shi* to him all the time. He owns a camaro and she says it's not safe enough for their son to ride in but takes him in a jeep wrangler (she can't drive for shi* so she's gonna tip it one of these days) I let him borrow my gp as much as possible so he can see his son. I think it's really sad that women use their children as bargaining chips it's ridiculous. I'm so sorry for you guys that have to go through that

[Bogers99GTP]

TDC man I feel for ya. She needs to know that being a Full time mom isnt a job...its a responsiblity. She can wait on going to school that's why they also do online classes The one who will suffer them most esp. when they get older is the child. Just from getting to know you from GPF, you have my respect man! I know its hard rasing a child, mind you I dont have any kids, but I do help raise my niece.

[TDCRacing]

Thanks. And I know it's hard being a mom. I want to help. She won't let me.


I just hope that when she grows up she will understand how things are and were.

[evol207girl]

I'm sure she will understand when she gets older. all you can do is try your best and hope it turns out well

[french080]

Good luck TDC. i know your pain. i hope it gets better for you.

[BADAZGTP]

For both of you, TDC and french080, I am sorry you have to put up with women like that. It may not be noticable now, but your child see's who the real parent is. I hate when stuff like that happens. That's like my sis-in-law. She always has her sons father in court, he's a deadbeat anyway, but at the same time, she is always pawning her son off on his grandma. Only spends time with him when it's convienent for her. Me and the wife tried to talk her in to letting us keep him so he could get the love and support he needs, but she would have no part of it.

[french080]

well thanks for the support. ill try and stay positive and cool as a fan, but its easier said than done. just wish that my ex would understand that if she does this it will hurt her in the long run. i just worry for my little girl. she is my number one priority.

[TDCRacing]

Thanks for the support on my end too you guys. I guess it kinda turned into a thread for the both of us lol.

[french080]

thats cool. since we are kinda in similiar situations, share the support. but get this, i get a call from my ex and she says "im gonna give you the benefit of doubt" this is some BS. its a roller-coaster, and the price of admission MY SANITY. she knows she is wrong. and she doesnt want to lose the support that my mom and dad give to her. they help out tremendously and i cant thank them enough, because my job requires me to be out of town 2 or 3 weeks a month, or sometimes more. well all is well for now, lets see how it works out when im gone for a month.