I'm in for reaction also.
And us women always figure things out and make things 100x worse then they really are.
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Humans by nature are curious creatures. So ur wife will be poking around and get a wiff of something even without knowing anything. Women love drama (thats why the watch all them reality tv shows that guys cant stand). Therefore this leads to her making a big deal about a little deal and u get to sleep on the couch for a while.
/paragraph proof.
Tell her up front. The world will be a better place. Let us kno how this all works out.
It was all a clever game by my ex to try to win me back. Every single message was a walk down memory lane and trying to rag on my wife and how she is better and blah blah blah. I discontinued contact with her and that is the end of that.
I'm glad I didn't decide to even try to tell this whole thing to my wife, she would cut my dick off for sure.
Like I said, I'm ashamed I even contemplated this idea, I should of immediately told my ex to go **** herself the first message I got, but all I thought about was cruizen in that car...or flipping it for some cash towards my current projects...
no matter which way you put it its still a monte ss, NOT a Grand National. Any G-bodies that are worth money are the GNX/GN/ T-Type/ Turbo T. Maybe the hurst olds...maybe.
good thing you didn't lie to your wife for a chebby manj
Anything involving an ex should involve your wife from the start. My financee aka wife to be realizes I was with a few women before her and I wasn't fully compatible with them. She knows that I realize the same about her. She's best of friends with one ex. I have no issue with her talking to him etc, she also realizes that I will be meeting him. If they want to be friends, then her husband to be will also be friends with him.
This type of issue is also why I've never kept in touch with any ex beyond the ex sex which has a certain time limit.
I'm not friends with ex's because they have nothing left to offer.
Turn the table, tell her you are going to be friends with an ex and she'll understand better. One day Janet knew I was going to diagnose a car I sold a couple years back. I'd be at a buddies housewarming party about an hour and a half away. I did have one night of fun with the girl that bought the car. This was about when Janet understood the reason she needed to intro me to her "friend" the ex.
I just asked general Ackbar about this situation, and he agrees that it's a trap.
Not everyone fully alienates each other with a relationship, and good friends are hard to come by - this is especially true if the relationship ended because the parties preferred being "just friends.". As far as residual attraction goes, you can be just as attracted to someone you never dated - everyone is suspect; no sense in worrying about it. A little jealousy can be cute. A lot of jealousy can be a relationship-breaker. I've heard good things about trust, too.
'Bout time you found a real winner, then.
Remember Ex's are called ex's for a reason
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