ok dude , first of all if this guy comes up to you and wants to fight and he is taller then you , rush him drop down to one knee grab both legs with your head on one side or the other and dump him to the floor , this is called a double leg , then go for it well he is on the floor. just don't bite him. as for her , i would give her the three F's , feed her f*** her forget her , done........