Locate the two relays under the hood. Note their orientation. Take them out, cut pin 85 off from relay #17. Leave just enough of the stump to solder a 26-22AWG wire to it. Solder the other end to the base of pin 86 on relay #11. Reinstall the relays under the hood, EXACTLY the way you found them.
Switch mod to fix the indicator lamp:
Remove the fog lamp switch and disassemble it. MOVE the lead of the indicator lamp from the bottom right to the upper right pin.
OR - remove both bulbs and replace with LEDs. The cathode (-) side of the LEDs go to the upper right pin. The resistors are ~670k, 1/4watt. Use whatever colors you want. Stock would be orange/red on the left and amber/yellow on the right.
Works from 97 to 03.